When Friends ''Requests" Status Is Removed Without Specific Info As To Why.
Being fairly new to Facebook, at first I didn"t want to waste my time on it. My wife and kids started a page for me, so I tried it. Found many friends and past and present friends found me. Sometimes things would pop up, you and 12 other people have this person in common. I would send out a request, and have had great luck having them come back as friends. Before Facebook, if you wanted to meet someone, you just asked. Sometimes they put out their han and sometimes not. That was the end of it and no matter what, life was still the same and did go on. Facebook gave me a 2 day suspension from seeking and adding friends. There was no,"this is what you did to bring on this action", just a list of things that might have brought this on. It's a little like your guilty of something, and there is no such thing as innocent, or do we even care less. When you get a friendship request, there are options to take such as not excepting the request. Or prehaps blocking the sender from accessing your page anymore. I don't know how this whole thing works into "freedom of speech" or "freedom of opinion".But even though I have not drank in a few years, I still remember that you could ask a girls phone number in a bar, it either worked out or it didn't, no harm, just move on.
The only way to know if your going to mack a friend is to ask. Many of my friends were made by this thing called introdution, something that was quite common before computers. There is known reason to be punishing people without even allowing the god given, constutional right to know what "exact",infraction they have committed. Even if you sign an agreement to something, it must not overstep any boundries which may cosidered questionable or may violate all or part of constitutional boundries. If a person cannot ask the simple, harmless question, would you like to be friends. Without fear of some 50 year old highschool prom queen, bitter in life, or just still very stuck up, wanting to make someone else's life equally sad. The "the do not except","do not allow",and "block this person from my page",are all great tools. I do wonder how many people have fallen victem to "your guilty and this social network couldn't care less if you like it or not", mentality.
In my spare time I will be researching the basis of my own questions and concernes, meanwhile you may want to look into a better way of informing people what their "exact" violation was before you instill anykind of retrabution. We are not little children, if we make a mistake simply explain it to us what it was, and we'll fix it.
If somehow you could get the letter into the proper hands at facbook, I would greatly appreiciate it. In my opinion, they have done a pretty good job of insulating themselves from any negative feedback, shame on them.